When someone tried to believe you, it's not the time to ignore, forget, also unfair act to them.
This is one of sadness act element.
Sadness can be viewed as a temporary lowering of mood, whereas depression is characterized by a persistent and intense lowered mood, as well as disruption to one's ability to function in day to day matters."
There is a story from Ayanna G in her article "How to Tell the Difference Between Friends and Acquaintances". This one can be misunderstanding that hard to be accepted. People always want that their friends will be always their friends. True enough but where is the proof? Friends maybe understand how you feel, that when you feel warm with them, how about the cold feeling? Ignoring is the one of cold expression that they didn't think you are their friends. This is a wrong decision for social aspect.
There is a difference between being an acquaintance and being a friend.
An acquaintance is someone whose name you know, who you see every now and then, who you probably have something in common with and who you feel comfortable around.
It's a person that you can invite to your home and share things with. But they are people who you don't share your life with, whose actions sometimes you don't understand because you don't know enough about them.
On the other hand
A friend is someone you love. Not that you are "in love" with them, but you care about them and you think about them when they are not there. The people you are reminded of when you see something they might like, and you know this because you know them so well. They are the people whose pictures you have and whose faces are in your head regardless.
They are the people who stop you from making mistakes and help you when you do. They are the people whose hand you can hold, or you can hug or give them a kiss and not have it be awkward because they understand the things you do and they love you for them.
They stick with you and stand by you. They hold your hand. They watch you live and you watch them live and you learn from them. Your life is not the same without them.
With the differences you know, you will be understand in which situation you were faced. Friends aren’t simple thing. They need power like a machine, they need love like “living beings”, and many things that hard to say.
There are many people
that we meet in our lives
but only a very few
will make a lasting impression
on our minds and hearts
It is these people that we will
think of often
and who will always remain
important to us
as true friends
that we meet in our lives
but only a very few
will make a lasting impression
on our minds and hearts
It is these people that we will
think of often
and who will always remain
important to us
as true friends
~Susan Polis Schut~
Thank You.
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